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Several students gathered around a sign that documented a child's development in the womb through pictures. We debated when life begins and when it is permissible to end that life. One black male student tried to take charge in our debate. He had long hair, hoop earrings in each ear, and wore artificial nails. Nevertheless, he said, "As a man, I don't think I have any right to tell a woman what she can do with her body." I replied, "We are not talking about a woman's body unless the baby is a woman." This kind of exchange is a typical conversation at these events. "When does life begin?" is usually at the center of the debate. This young man got tired of being careful with his words, and he blurted out, "If a woman wants to kill her child, that should be her choice!" I tried to clarify, "So, you say that women should be allowed to commit murder?" He replied, "Yes." The eyes of a white female student, who stood behind the man speaking, suddenly got much bigger as she took in the statement of her fellow student. Sometimes, the value of these debates is letting the students hear the ludicrous nature of their own arguments.
A white female student came back to speak with me after the rest of the student body had left. She thanked me for being able to dialogue with the students without yelling. She implied that she was pro-life but didn't dare let anyone on campus know it. Then she said to me, "I think you would be more effective if you didn't bring up Jesus in your arguments." To be clear, we don't need to bring up Jesus to demonstrate that abortion is murder and genocide. Nevertheless, I told her that I have to bring up Jesus so that students who have already had abortions will have hope for forgiveness and healing. I think she understood what I was saying, but she obviously did not trust Jesus so thoroughly herself. She reiterated her fear of the student body. I offered to pray for her, which she accepted. I prayed that she would have courage.
Significant Silence
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